Closted Gay boyfriend's father finding out?
I'm in a relationship with a closeted case. He left for a trip last week and he just got back today. It was his birthday a few days before his trip and I had given him a bday card. He left the Bday card (filled with mushy words, etc) on his desk and a letter I wrote for him there as well. Today, after getting back from his trip, he told me he found his dad's glasses on top of it. He said it could be that he was using the computer, but I doubt thats the case as I know his dad hasnt used his computer for the past 2 months I've been around his place. I'm thinking that I should stop hanging around his house and just stop hanging out entirely because as much as I like him, I just don't feel like getting disowned in his home for being myself. I just want to be a little cautious. What should I do in a situation like this? I just feel like I shouldn't need to run and hide like this everytime one of his friend or family suspects something.
He is closeted not you. Don't stop hanging around your boyfriend and his family because you think his dad may know! If he does, and he has a problem HE WOULD SAY SO not just let it keep happening! Imagine how hurt your boyfriend would be! Imagine how stressfull it is to him! If your boyfriends dad says he doesent want you around, then accept it and leave but don't leave until he says for you too. Don't worry, I'm sure all will be fine N dandy! If you love and care about your boyfriend, you won't leave him when times get rough. This may be a GREAT thing in helping him come out of the closet!
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